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Publisher: Mind Architecture, Inc
Published: Dec 1969
Genre: Family & Relationships - Divorce & Separation
Pages: 106
Lawyers recommend keeping track of all interactions between parentsDon't let your ex control you and protect your kids
Coping with divorce can be one of the most stressful times of your life. Dealing with a high conflict ex in court is very difficult, especially if details of meetings are confused. It is recommended by lawyers and counselors to keep a journal to track details pertaining to custody and visitation. You can show a pattern of abuse and disregarded agreements, which courts will pay attention to. Easily keep track of all photos, videos and witnesses to incidents that may occur. Being able to present in a concise manner will help show your organization and there will be more trust put into what you say in court.
Keep track of everything you need for the courts:Dates and times (including the actual time the ex arrived, especially if late)Agreed meeting placeDetails of what was discussedNames of any photos or videos takenAll details to help with co-parenting and visitation˃˃˃ Parents with mental health issues like narcissist and borderline personality disorders can make your and your kids lives difficultWhen you have to deal with a parent that causes problems because of narcissist or borderline personality disorders, it is difficult for you to take care of your kids. Every time there is conflict it raises stress and harms your kids. Lawyers don't want to deal with someone that complains about the ex. By keeping track of a pattern of problems and showing that the ex doesn't meet the agreements, you can gain back control. Without having details of a series of problems, the court won't see what the problem is. Using this journal, you can help yourself and your kids by gaining the control and power back that might otherwise be taken from you.
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